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June has been a sadly consequential month. Having lost a friend is a long-time grief that gets processed and unprocessed throughout your life. Anu’s memory has barely even faded and now Navneet’s loss is phenomenally unbearable. Well, on top of that, Navneet’s ’secret’ favourite – Michael Jackson – is also gone. Though I am not a big fan, he was special in his own way and more special because everytime we heard him, it made Navneet smile. In a way, I am relieved as I think she might just meet him up there! After all, it’s his soul that gave music to the world, right? Have fun girl!

Amid all of this grief and futile attempts to ‘deal with it’, I have been trying all ways to digest the fact that she is gone. Well, I am still hungover with what happened last month… From ”retail therapy” to keeping my mind occupied, nothing has really worked. I am also watching a lot of movies, which do help for those few hours. Well, something to begin with!
I watched ‘The Hangover’ the other day. The movie, which is outrageously funny is a m-u-s-t watch! (do I say that a lot?) :)
Well, a plot around 4 friends who go to Vegas to celebrate their friend’s last 2 days of bachelorhood. And celebrate they do!!!
The movie is so funny that I actually held my tummy and laughed aloud in a crass manner. I usually do not enjoy comedies as most of them do not amuse me, but Hangover made me laugh through and through. Also, Bradley Cooper is HOT!

If you need to keep your mind off, and be entertained in a way that you giggle thinking about the movie even a week later, watch Hangover. :)

” No seriously, Bombay is the best city in the world…I wish I die there!”

” Oh shut up Navneet, stop being so dramatic about everything…”

” hahaha, crack child, I am trying to sound like YOU!”

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And she did. Keeping up to her word, the Powerhouse in my life silently collapsed, leaving us utterly devastated. Navneet Wasu, my ‘Navneeet’, Kunal’s ‘Makkhan’, Shalini’s ‘Bobbetty Bob’, her mother’s ‘Kiran”… is now no more.

On the foreboding evening of June 08, 2009, she decided to go astray to a hopefully heavenly abode.

The grief of her sudden demise is immense, though smiling memories from the past aplenty. This could be a sad entry, but the intent is to celebrate her life that she shared with all of us. She gave a piece of her honest heart to all her friends – be it loyalty, ”confidentiality”, secrets, giggles or just plain arbit banter, Navneet will always be the most special friend to all her friends.

It was the singleness of her character that may put you off when you meet her at first – and it is the singleness of her character that makes you fall in love with her later. I lived with her for a long time; from awkward days of ”getting to know each other” to days of absolute intimacy when we’ve cried together, I’ve had my ups and downs with her and we withstood the test of friendship at several levels. It was she who finally made me realize that relationships needn’t be  hunky dory all the time – they have their bad moments and to rise above them and unite again is what friendship is all about. I had those moments and she knew it and vice versa.

I owe her enough to live my life by the rules of Ms Navneet Wasu. Our crazy bike rides in the dead of the night and our endless chats that would hop, skip and jump from serious intense issues to Bollywood gossip and relationship problems… I am going to miss her phone number to be dialed FIRST everytime I ‘had’ to talk…

She also, by the way, is the reason why I take whatever little decisions I do – if not for her, I wouldn’t even think of doing so many things that I did! “Shubha, you are a grown up now, do you mind standing up for yourself for once!!!” And I  secretly agreed, almost every time.

One of my favourite memories with Nav is when we decided to go to Nandi Hills on a hot May afternoon. Please see that Navneet’s bike was then 14 years old and was a moody, old thing. Well, two girls, ‘hoping’ to get back home all safe n sound, left for one of the most memorable rides of their lives. From being followed by random, cheap men to clicking ”interesting” pictures pretending to be Ansel Adams, Nandi Hills trip, as weird as it may sound, remains one of the best ones of my life.

Navneet, for all her upfront attitude and strong opinions was a marsh mellow at heart. Most of all, she was outright genuine. She was my Track Pants girl who gave a damn… riding her bike as if she rules the roads, cracking up and laughing out aloud at random nothings. Introduced me to Harry Potter but was left disappointed as I couldn’t pass the 3rd book. From making delicious ”dal” to egg sandwiches – from eggs on our hair to comparing the shape of our ‘ugly feet’ – from laughing at funnily dressed women to taking dips in guiltless mockery – and from singing aloud on roads with all eyes on us to secretly crying watching “My Best Friend’s Wedding” – Navneet Wasu was my best friend who has given me more and more reasons to smile everyday.

We will move on, the grief will fade away but the void of having a Powerhouse in my life will always stay. Navneet, wherever you are, you better be reading this !

You were going to design my wedding outfit, you were going to dance for the sangeet… You were going to take me to Mondeez in Bombay… you were going to tell me what was bothering you for the last 4 months… You didn’t… Promises broken, conversations left unfinished… places unvisited and secrets undisclosed…empty chambers of possible memories and a smoke that will never cease to be…

...Track Pants Girl forever...

...Track Pants Girl forever...

Navneet Wasu – December 2, 1981 – June 08, 2009.

You are gone but the ”drama” left behind is surely here to stay.

I love you, and I miss you, and I hope to God that you are somewhere giggling with the twinkle in your eye just the way I saw you last…

Well, another month without any posts. Can I blame  it on the fact the fact that February is a short month? Oh, alright. I know what you mean.

Moving on, like always, amazing level of chaos in my life and mind. But hey, guess what; I have decided to do things that are going to makemehappy. Simple.

Like, listening to music right in the morning irrespective of whether or not I am running late. If I start my day with music, it works as a sure-shot healing for all drudgery and distraught. I also, am going to, well in my own comfortable time, start meeting people – those who I may have lost touch with, and those who are absolute strangers, without any pre-drawn judgements about who I am.

I am going to travel -  and enjoy it too! I am going to de-burden (is that correct?) myself from silly things that pull me down all the time. The whole let’s-get-everything-perfect mania is driving me insane. I need to let loose, and relax. Supine, relaxed, soothed…

Work is good, and so are the people around me. There is no negativity and I like being there. People are soft and nice and indulge in healthy discussions all the time. I realise, how it is extremely important to have an intelligent bunch of people around you. The conversations are stimulating and you end up learning a lot. I mean, you do need your time and space to discuss the unknown about life and the miseries enwrapping all of us but honestly, on an average, it is the general, light conversations through the day that will maintain whatever little sanity we have left in us.

I met a bunch of very interesting people last night – some still lost but making an effort, some totally lost and flowing smooth and some who lost some, found some and are now leading normal lives.

Oh, I went totally off the track, didn’t I? Well, another thing I am going to start doing is dealing with myself positively. Instead of pointing fingers at my own self all the time, I will not worry and bother about stupid, silly things anymore. I also am going to let-it-go when necessary…

I don’t know why but I am all excited. Some sort of bug I guess…

State of mind? Clear blue skies.

Weather? Surprisingly HOT!

Song? My Baby’s Got a Secret! :p

There are all sorts of people in this world (wait, have I used this opening line a bit too many times?)

OK, in this world, you will find people of all kinds – some nice, some not-so-nice and some just not nice! Apart from encounters with people at a personal level, you also interact with a lot of people at a professional level. Now, if you were like me, you would observe and analyse and maybe form judgements as well. In my 2-odd years of work experience, I think I have come across ”workers” of 3 major kind: the Good, the Bad & the Struggly.

Well, back in the days where anyone who got a job was considered o be the smartest fellow in the town, maybe things  were not so complicated. Everyone was considered great at his work – there was little shrewdness, more fondness and more respect.

With our work culture, coping with world’s culture, the demarcations have become darker and more legible. Now, whether or not you are good at your work is much clearer. There is something called ‘Street Smartness’, which usually implies to people who may not be brilliant at their work, but they know how to be noticed by the right people at the right time. This, I feel is the category of ‘Good’ people…

Now, we have the ‘Bad’ ones – not only are these people not good at their work, but they are also very bad at PR – ing themselves. Neither are they Street Smart, nor extremely good at their work – nothing really works in their favour. They give up, they just have to.

The third, and my favourite is the ‘Struggly’ category – these are people who are still learning how to master their work, and are also trying to be noticed for the right reasons. Once bitten twice shy, I am someone who has defied this law repeatedly. Irrespective of how many times I get played by others, I don’t learn my lesson. But hey, I am learning and I am working on being a Master of my Art. I may not be the best when it comes to ’speaking’ for my work, but I definately believe that good work never goes unnoticed and I plan to stick by this theory till I fall (which I hopefully won’t!).

So, I fall under the ‘Struggly’ category, and I love being there. What about you?

State of mind? Kindly Calm.

Weather? Interestingly Pleasant.

Song? Ye Dilli Hai Meri Jaan - Dilli 6

Even though 2008 was a highly eventful year, it left me not-so-happy.

Happy New Year to you all :)   4316420hopeful20horizons

The torture of not being able to find a job right at the beginning of year, to apprehensions about a precarious future, finally finding a job – meeting and interacting with a very different category of people there, quitting the second job and looking for another change, has drained me completely. I have been professionaly exhausted and am lying low. Even though my current work place seems to be getting me somewhere, I only hope that things work out fine here - fingers crossed!

So, New Years was nice. A friend came down from Mumbai to be with us and another one joined us over the long weekend – not extended but was wholesome fun. I had a great, great time and I am happy that I have friends who care :) No offence to those who didn’t come down, coz I know they had different plans already – Mr Baldy and Tiny Tunu!! :p

Last year, amidst the many unpleasant events that took place in my life, a few good things happened as well. Re-affirmation of a certain relationship, a stronger bond, slight maturity (yea KG, I know u think I am nowhere even close!), little more confidence, lessons of judgements, cousin’s long-pending wedding, family reunion, swalpa weight loss :D , reestablished lost contacts, forgave some, forgot some, and deliberately threw some out – a not-s0-bad 365 days I must say!

But one thing, a real bad one that prevailed throughout is this negativity about being alone and lonely (refer to a previous post). I reviewed and re-reviewed (is that a word?), certain relationships and actually figured out who all do I really want in my life. Even though that section is kind of sorted, I still haven’t found *what* I am looking for – not *who* I am looking for.  It is strange coz if you see all the circular boxes from up above, things don’t look so bad. But, the moment you try breaking in, there is so much confusion and chaos that it can baffle a stable mind. Some say I am weird, some say I think too much but the fact of the matter is – it exists!

I have entrusted myself with responsibilities – is good, but I am expected to perform them *all the time* – not-so-good! I am growing old - stand far from marriage (oh, don’t ask me!), have lost the innocent charm, have lost honest trust in people, have become suspicious … have lost some and gained some…

If I look at our pictures just 2-3 years ago, I can see a trail of change on the look I carry on my face. From someone whose laughter was loud as a bang, to someone who thinks twice before expressing a certain reaction in public, I have become much low profile. I look pale, the twinkle in my eye is gone and it sucks to feel that only kohl can help me survive the day!

What once used to be a happy, delighful time of the year has become a long-extended series of retrospection and analysis of myself and all around me! Ugh, trust me it is a horrible feeling.

And guess what, I didn’t notice it but nowadays, I actually am *scared* to visit malls or public places. I anyway hate malls, but if we have to watch a movie, they are unavoidable and hence, I end up going there. It is strange that the whole ‘terrorism’ deal has taken a toll on my sleep as well.

Oh, one more good thing of 2008 – a recovered fondness, love and respect for my parents. Another! I now voice it up if need be, feels good though I barely relate to it. But a verrry dear friend of mine – R- says that I must not lose my self-respect and esteem at any cost, which I now believe is one’s biggest asset.

This is a really long post, man!

I hope 2009 is a better and a brighter year for all of us - a very happy new year guys!

My Boss forwarded this to me. Worth a read…

ROHINTON MALOO was shot doing two things he enjoyed immensely. Eating good food and tossing new ideas. He was among the 13 diners at the Kandahar , Trident-Oberoi, who were marched out onto the service staircase, ostensibly as hostages. But the killers had nothing to bargain for. The answers to the big questions — Babri Masjid, Gujarat , Muslim persecution — were beyond the power of anyone to deliver neatly to the hotel lobby. The small ones — of money and materialism — their crazed indoctrination had already taken them well beyond. With the final banality of all fanaticism, flaunting the paradox of modern technology and medieval fervour — AK-47 in one hand; mobilephone in the other — the killers asked their minders, “Udan dein?” The minder, probably a maintainer of cold statistics, said,“Uda do.”

Rohinton caught seven bullets, and by the time his body was recovered, it could only be identified by the ring on his finger. Rohinton was just 48, with two teenage children, and a hundred plans. A few of these had to do with TEHELKA, where he was a strategic advisor for the last two years. As Indians, we seldom have a good word to say about the living, but in the dead we discover virtues that strain the imagination. Perhaps it has to do with a strange mix of driving envy and blinding piety. Let me just say Rohinton was charismatic, ambitious, and a man of his time, and place. The time was always now, and in his outstanding career in media marketing, he was ever at the cutting edge of the new — in the creation of Star Networks, and a score of ventures on the web. The place was always Mumbai, the city he grew up in and lived in, and he exemplified its attitudes: the hedonism, the get-go, the easy pluralism.

For me there is a deep irony in his death. He was killed by what he set very little store by.. In his every meeting with us, he was bemused and baffled by TEHELKA’s obsessive engagement with politics. He was quite sure no one of his class — our class — was interested in the subject. Politics happened elsewhere, a regrettable business carried out by unsavoury characters. Mostly, it had nothing to do with our lives. Eventually, sitting through our political ranting, he came to grudgingly accept we may have some kind of a case. But he remained unconvinced of its commercial viability. Our kind of readers were interested in other things, which were germane to their lives — food, films, cricket, fashion, gizmos, television, health and the strategies of seduction. Politics, at best, was something they endured.

In the end, politics killed Rohinton, and a few hundred other innocents. In the final count, politics, every single day, is killing, impoverishing, starving, denigrating, millions of Indians all across the country. If the backdrop were not so heartbreaking, the spectacle of the nation’s elite — the keepers of most of our wealth and privilege — frothing on television screens and screaming through mobile phones would be amusing. They have been outraged because the enduring tragedy of India has suddenly arrived in their marbled precincts. The Taj, the Oberoi. We dine here. We sleep here. Is nothing sacrosanct in this country any more?

What the Indian elite is discovering today on the debris of fancy eateries is an acidic truth large numbers of ordinary Indians are forced to swallow every day. Children who die of malnutrition, farmers who commit suicide, dalits who are raped and massacred, tribals who are turfed out of centuryold habitats, peasants whose lands are taken over for car factories, minorities who are bludgeoned into paranoia — these, and many others, know that something is grossly wrong. The system does not work, the system is cruel, the system is unjust, the system exists to only serve those who run it. Crucially, what we, the elite, need to understand is that most of us are complicit in the system. In fact, chances are the more we have — of privilege and money — the more invested we are in the shoring up of an unfair state.

IT IS time each one of us understood that at the heart of every society is its politics. If the politics is third-rate, the condition of the society will be no better. For too many decades now, the elite of India has washed its hands off the country’s politics. Entire generations have grown up viewing it as a distasteful activity. In an astonishing perversion, the finest imaginative act of the last thousand years on the subcontinent, the creation and flowering of the idea of modern India through mass politics, has for the last 40 years been rendered infra dig, déclassé, uncool. Let us blame our parents, and let our children blame us, for not bequeathing onwards the sheer beauty of a collective vision, collective will, and collective action. In a word, politics: which, at its best, created the wonder of a liberal and democratic idea, and at its worst threatens to tear it down.

We stand faulted then in two ways. For turning our back on the collective endeavour; and for our passive embrace of the status quo. This is in equal parts due to selfish instinct and to shallow thinking. Since shining India is basically only about us getting an even greater share of the pie, we have been happy to buy its half-truths, and look away from the rest of the sordid story. Like all elites, historically, that have presided over the decline of their societies, we focus too much of our energy on acquiring and consuming, and too little on thinking and decoding. Egged on by a helium media, we exhaust ourselves through paroxysms over vacant celebrities and trivia, quite happy not to see what might cause us discomfort.

For years, it has been evident that we are a society being systematically hollowed out by inequality, corruption, bigotry and lack of justice. The planks of public discourse have increasingly been divisive, widening the faultlines of caste, language, religion, class, community and region. As the elite of the most complex society in the world, we have failed to see that we are ratcheted into an intricate framework, full of causal links, where one wrong word begets another, one horrific event leads to another. Where one man’s misery will eventually trigger another’s.

Let’s track one causal chain. The Congress creates Jarnail Singh Bhindranwale to neutralise the Akalis; Bhindranwale creates terrorism; Indira Gandhi moves against terrorism; terrorism assassinates Indira Gandhi; blameless Sikhs are slaughtered in Delhi ; in the course of a decade, numberless innocents, militants, and securitymen die. Let’s track another. The BJP takes out an inflammatory rath yatra; inflamed kar sewaks pull down the Babri Masjid; riots ensue; vengeful Muslims trigger Mumbai blasts; 10 years later a bogey of kar sewaks is burnt in Gujarat; in the next week 2,000 Muslims are slaughtered; six years later retaliatory violence continues. Let’s track one more.. In the early 1940s, in the midst of the freedom movement, patrician Muslims demand a separate homeland; Mahatma Gandhi opposes it; the British support it; Partition ensues; a million people are slaughtered; four wars follow; two countries drain each other through rhetoric and poison; nuclear arsenals are built; hotels in Mumbai are attacked.

IN EACH of these rough causal chains, there is one thing in common. Their origin in the decisions of the elite. Interlaced with numberless lines of potential divisiveness, the India framework is highly delicate and complicated. It is critical for the elite to understand the framework, and its role in it. The elite has its hands on the levers of capital, influence and privilege. It can fix the framework. It has much to give, and it must give generously. The mass, with nothing in its hands, nothing to give, can out of frustration and anger, only pull it all down. And when the volcano blows, rich and poor burn alike.

And so what should we be doing? Well, screaming at politicians is certainly not political engagement. And airy socialites demanding the carpet-bombing of Pakistan and the boycott of taxes are plain absurd, just another neon sign advertising shallow thought. It’s the kind of dumb public theatre the media ought to deftly side-step rather than showcase. The world is already over-shrill with animus: we need to tone it down, not add to it. Pakistan is itself badly damaged by the flawed politics at its heart. It needs help, not bombing.. Just remember, when hardboiled bureaucrats clench their teeth, little children die.

Most of the shouting of the last few days is little more than personal catharsis through public venting. The fact is the politician has been doing what we have been doing, and as an über Indian he has been doing it much better. Watching out for himself, cornering maximum resource, and turning away from the challenge of the greater good.

The first thing we need to do is to square up to the truth. Acknow ledge the fact that we have made a fair shambles of the project of nation-building. Fifty million Indians doing well does not for a great India make, given that 500 million are grovelling to survive. Sixty years after independence, it can safely be said that India’s political leadership — and the nation’s elite — have badly let down the country’s dispossessed and wretched. If you care to look, India today is heartbreak hotel, where infants die like flies, and equal opportunity is a cruel mirage.

Let’s be clear we are not in a crisis because the Taj hotel was gutted. We are in a crisis because six years after 2,000 Muslims were slaughtered in Gujarat there is still no sign of justice. This is the second thing the elite need to understand — after the obscenity of gross inequality. The plinth of every society — since the beginning of Man — has been set on the notion of justice. You cannot light candles for just those of your class and creed. You have to strike a blow for every wronged citizen.

And let no one tell us we need more laws.We need men to implement those that we have.. Today all our institutions and processes are failing us. We have compromised each of them on their values, their robustness, their vision and their sense of fairplay. Now, at every crucial juncture we depend on random acts of individual excellence and courage to save the day. Great systems, triumphant societies, are veined with ladders of inspiration. Electrified by those above them, men strive to do their very best. Look around. How many constables, head constables, sub-inspectors would risk their lives for the dishonest, weak men they serve, who in turn serve even more compromised masters?

I wish Rohinton had survived the lottery of death in Mumbai last week. In an instant, he would have understood what we always went on about. India’s crying need is not economic tinkering or social engineering. It is a political overhaul, a political cleansing. As it once did to create a free nation, India ’s elite should start getting its hands dirty so they can get a clean country.

Very interesting, till date I have read many a posts on many blogs in English and some in German. Today was the first time I read one in Hindi and trust me when I say, it was so beautiful that it touched my soul. With words piercing my non-descript entity to wake up and realise realities of life, I am left numbed…

I realise that emotions do not lose its depth irrespective of which language they are expressed in. An emotion travels beyond boundaries, with nothing confining its identity… And some words are just so beautiful that they add even more depth to the already existing, heartfelt emotion…

Anyway, for all those who can read and understand Hindi:  http://madmandate.blogspot.com

Happy Reading!

November went away in bidding goodbyes, enjoying a wedding and getting introduced at the new workplace. A month went by and all my routines went for a toss. An entire month when SO much happened, but nothing got recorded. Like your baby’s best smile and the camera doesn’t work. Like you see the face of the damn terrorist, and again your camera doesn’t work. I did not get time to post even a single blog. That’s rather shameful… I don’t understand how can we get so busy that we don’t even get time to do what we LOVE doing.

What I also don’t understand is the fact that people are so complex. They are complicated and weird and weird and complicated. Ugh! I mean, no one is in control of their emotions, they are vain, they are self centered, they don’t have a goal in life and then they crib and complain etc.

It is Anu’s birthday. I don’t even know what to write or say. It is strange, with streams of moments just flowing past so quickly, it has become like a sidelined activity to think about people who are special. In this case, she was special. I just wish I could actually wish her with a huge hug but because she is far away with God, I don’t think it’s really that possible. Why, why? I wonder how A feels… they were best friends… hmmm… Miss you Anu. I hope you’re doing fine, wherever you are…

Anyway, must get back to work. Will write more, soon!

I want a laptop!!!

So, in the middle of the night, my roomie and I got dragged to an ‘after-party’, in a remote farmhouse in Hennur. Well, even after being almost sure about feeling like a misfit, I did land up. As I walked in holding my roomie’s hand tightly with the fear of being lost, I suddenly felt a rush of pale, dry air run through my skin. I was suddenly thirsty and my head hurt. Psychological as it is, I felt like a complete misfit. The prissy, petite women dressed in ‘perfect’ attire, carrying themselves in exquisite mannersim made me feel gauche.

Well, doesn’t matter, I followed my roomie and her friend into the crowd. Stopping at almost every step, being introduced to random people who wouldn’t even remember my name the next moment, I felt like an disinterested kid lost in a boring fair. Plastic smiles, Zero figures, tiny clothes, companions and the likes… Loud House music getting every single body move to its tune, the party was loud and over-crowded.

Standing there, amidst a crowd I just don’t relate to, I thought to myself; am I too closed to things in this world? It’s not like these things get me worked up, but because I am so uncomfortable, I felt awkward each time an eye looked at me. I wanted to run back home, put on my night clothes and doze off.

At 24, maybe I am a boring person with no interest in clubbing etc., but honestly, it is something I DO NOT ENJOY! Thank God for my roomie who stood by me throughout the party. As the night crawled into dawn, there were fireworks, for a good 20 odd minutes. WOW. The sky, which was just waking up to the color of slight grey which would soon turn into sky blue, looked spectacular. Against the morose sky that watched the show all night, the colourful bursts of crackers added a lot of life to it. It would turn red and then blue, yellow and red again. I was dumbstruck as I hadn’t seen such a flamboyant display of fireworks in my life. My mouth open, I stared at the sky like how an artist would paint a child’s encounter with God. The sparks from the crackers would burst into beautiful formations and come falling down on earth, like an actual fall of many stars on it. LOVELY sight.

All in all, even though I felt out-of-place and was tired and sleepy, the fireworks made my day and I am glad I went for that party… it acually reassured my belief of me a misfit at such gatherings…

Anyhow, Wish You All A Very Happy Diwali!!!!

Hey everybody! I am back from my trip back home… Home… :)

08/08/08- terrible, terrible day of my life. Lost temper at work, broke down at work, huge scene out there… I lost my ATM card because of my own foolishness and some moron swiped money off my card. What a terrible day that was.

No it didn’t quite end with that. What got carried on to the next day was realisation about what all I had lost. Then lost my temper again and again and again. Then came Sunday; a sweet, rainy Sunday morning when Rajiv and PG drove me around the town to help me catch the ‘right’ bus to the airport. Paranoid that I am, I was hyperventilating already. Calm and composed PG, accompanied me all the way to the airport. Lovely bus ride, lovely lovely weather. The much awaited trip had already begun in my head.

Started reading Sula on the flight. Written by Toni Morrison, a story of two friends who grow together to be different individuals and yet accept and nurture the friendship they had sowed years ago. A beautiful story in the town of Medallion. :)

Reached the aiport to be greeted by my notorious brother who wouldn’t stop making fun of my nose pin. Aggrr… Fortunately, the weather in Delhi was very kind to me :) It had been raining for the past couple of weeks and hence was extremely pleasant when I got there. Anyway, got home, was taken aback by a comment made by Dad so took things easy. OK moving on… spent first 3-4 days bank-hopping…finishing pending tasks at home… trying to put things in place… Whatever.

Friday, August 15 was mum’s birthday. So we just randomly decided to go for a trip somewhere nearby. So, we went to Haridwar. Reached in the evening and without any more delay, we went to Har Ki Paudi. That’s the bank all devotees visit and prefer to take a dip in. There was no plan of ‘dipping’ in the Ganges though the moment we reached that place, a feeling extraordninary dawned upon us and we decided to dive in. 

*** Later***